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Sunday, June 12, 2011

Soul Tendencies: grieve-never too much

Soul Tendencies: grieve-never too much: "' we might stay in that unfoldment for any length of time. the need to grieve a change is natural and human and healthy. each of us is uniqu..."

grieve-never too much

"we might stay in that unfoldment for any length of time. the need to grieve a change is natural and human and healthy. each of us is unique in the amount of time what we need to grieve."

- the reverend mary murray shelton- guidance from the darkness,the transforming power of the divine feminine in difficult times


hey ladies,,
for major losses like the death of spouse or heartbreak,,,it is hurt and sometimes when it comes, its first effect can be confusing. no appetite to eat or perhaps eat too much,drink too much, sloppy dressed,leave the body treatment etc. we're going crazy when it happen, sometimes it seems we're fine, then depression comes. the intellect tends to shut off and leave us only with sort of automatic pilot.

it is so hard to take over again the "seat" and back in charge. well my friends,,,do what u really want but not too over-react. not too much of everything. u eat, reduce your meal,drink a little, meet your friends, spare little time for yourself, go waste your angry energy by doing sports, read the inspiring books, watch funny movie,listen to one sad song but continue with ten energic songs.

don't drink too much, loosing your conscious for a half time each day only get u worse and hurt more for the comin days untill you no longer stand to be in conscious, that feeling will bring you to next level of self-destroying. Drugs?? absolutely not!! it will kill your humanity.

don't eat too much.
i've been in a stressful moment, in a long period of sad soul. eat too much, i gain too much weight. uh uh cannot control it. also following myself loosing appetite then i get so thin. it's not abnormal, but stay longer and being an eating-disorder is not my and it won't be your choice either. it is forbidden. and how do you present yourself if you lose your nice body?

set dates for pampering days,,,still do the treatment and really enjoy them,,perhaps more treatment will do treat you better.

change your look,, be better, be brighter, be prettier or more gorgeous, start the positive thinking and positive attitude. one whole week of grieve or maximum of 2 weeks is more than enough. the feeling will may stay still, but at least it will reduce a little each time untill it shutted down and finally off the ground.

hey friends,,,remember you are not alone. even if you are now,, it is an exclusive time for you to do all what you want. but not too much okaiy.. xoxo

Friday, June 3, 2011

Song Lyric : SEVEN DAYS IN SUNNY JUNE ; by: Jamiroquai

The pebbles you've arranged
In the sand they're strange
they speak to me like to constellations as we lie here
There's a magic I can't hold
your smile of honey gold
and that you never seem to be in short supply of

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine, and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop that bomb on me

Lazy days crazy dolls
You said we've been friends too long
Seven days in sunny June
Were long enough to bloom
The flowers on the summer dress you wore in spring
The way we laughed as one
And then you dropped the bomb
That I've know you too long for us to have a thing

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine,and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop that bomb on me
Why did you have to drop the bomb

Could it be this
The story in your eyes
Tell of silent wings
You fly away on.

Seven days in sunny June
Were long enough to bloom
The flowers on the sunbeam dress you wore in spring
Yeah yeah, the way we laughed as one
Why did you drop that bomb on me

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine, and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop the bomb on me

Could it be this
The honeysuckle blessings you seem to show me
Could it be this
For seven days in june I wasn't lonely
Could it be this
You never gave me time to say I love you
Could it be this
I know you dont believe me but it's so true

Don't walk away from me girl
I read the stories in your eyes
Don't you walk away from me
I read the stories in your eyes
And you been telling we been friends for too long girl
I think I love you
I think I love you


(but you wanna drop the bomb)

Monday, May 30, 2011

Soul Tendencies: boots+glasses+multishawl= so Kewl !

Soul Tendencies: boots+glasses+multishawl= so Kewl !: "amazing fashion stuff for all time are boots, glasses and shawl.... but when you put them together and blend them in the right atmosphere, ..."

boots+glasses+multishawl= so Kewl !

amazing fashion stuff for all time are boots, glasses and shawl....
but when you put them together and blend them in the right atmosphere, you are so into it to the level of cool.
boots + glasses + shawl = so "kewl!"
Soul tendencies have these fashion item as the "kewl" choice.

from all kind of boots, Suede Boot, i love the most. Really  Kewl!! match the color with your soul tendency, it will expose your character. "show your fashion tendency!!*
*suede boots at Style Parlor posted by Abby Van Ness "salt&vinegar" (january,13 2009)*

WAYFARER EYE GLASSES - lifetime kewl fashion accessory. The coolest thing: U may wear it in casual or semi-formal even in formal dress. "simply kewl"
*Rayban collection at ioffer.com*


if you are the funky kind of fashion lover,on daylight, u may match your style with one of colorful wayfarer sunglasses.
*pic: wayfarers at myfashionjuice.com*


if you are the vintage kind of fashion lover, try this one. i love this one,too.
*pic "american-apparel-sunglasses-vintage"  from website: shopstyle.com*

Last but not Least, my choice goes to Multi-Shawl with a fringe detail
this shawl is available to be wore by male and female
also can be wore in any fashion condition, but don't forget to have it in cotton so you can wear it in any weather,too.



you don't have to wear the basic color all the time. have fun with other cute color such as pink or purple


the benefit of having a multi-shawl in your collection is that you can wear it in any style of your own.
like the white one above. wear it as a "fringe vest"

if you love the basic style, you can wrap it on your neck one time, two times (like the picture below) or even three times (as in the picture before : pink shawl, black shawl, brown shawl)
for those who wear hijab, you can add multishawl in your new look.



try this one too, wear your fringe multi-shawl in any color and add another accessory such as necklace or wear it with pretty bross. (see the picture below)



*FRINGE MULTISHAWL by Artcessoryhouse (material: cotton linen); pics from: Facebook.com for onlineshop (Artcessory House) / hawa-wearmore.blogspot.com / Myspace.com (noniaditya); designed by: Arif  P. Tarigan*


 i hope it will be a new option for you to express your soul tendencies.
show your fashion character!! Try and enjoy the experience...!! *BISES

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Soul Tendencies: tenue du jour que j'aime

Soul Tendencies: tenue du jour que j'aime: "style décontracté est le meilleur style pour tenue du jour . il ne doit pas être marchés , vous pouvez essayer platboots.add un ..."

Spice up Your casual Look !

Boots Trap & Classy Glasses

casual style is the best style for daily outfit.
it does not have to be kets, you may try flat boots.add a wool bolero with the t shirt under it.

if you choose the common style (which is very comfortable ofcourse) ; the t.shirt and jeans and kets, you may add a fringe cotton shawl. just wrap it around your neck.

add classy glasses for male. and the hairstyle for female,just a simply pony tail.

***Additional Fashion accessory***
Fringe Cotton Shawl by : Artcessoryhouse - multishawl for your style
designed by : Arif. P. Tarigan
where to buy: Online Shop @facebook: Artcessory House (artcessory.group@yahoo.com)

tenue du jour que j'aime

style décontracté est le meilleur style pour tenue du jour. il ne doit pas être marchés, vous pouvez essayer platboots.add un boléro en laine avec le t-shirt sous son régime.

si vous choisissez le style commun (ce qui est bien sûr très à l'aise), le t.shirt et des jeans et des marchés, vous pouvez ajouter un châle de coton sociaux. simplement l'enrouler autour de votre cou.

ajouter des lunettes chic pour hommes. et la coiffure pour les femmes, tout simplement une queue de cheval 
Boots trap&classy glasses spice up Casual Style  

Soul Tendencies: Fashion For The Soul

Soul Tendencies: Fashion For The Soul: "Fashion is more about what is inside you, what is the character, what suits you the best, what you have, combine or you can use it to show y..."

Fashion For The Soul

"this week,try an experiment. plan a creative excursion to go browsing in a home furnishings and decorative accessories shop. Go somewhere you've never been before, so that you're looking at everything with fresh eyes. what startles you, calls to you,excites you?write it down in a small spiral notebook that you can keep in your purse. is it the shape of teapot, the colors of a hooked rug, the textures in an exquisite dried flower arrangement? you'll know what you love the moment you see it. it's that familiar "wow" reaction.trust the impulse,capture the encounter,record the clues.these will be important later on."

That works for everyone. whether you're working at the office with office hour that is so boring, or you who work overtime a lot, you who work as designers, freelancer, writers or anything that needs something as a stimulus and inspiration for ideas and just for refresh your soul. let's go to basic y'all. dig what you like.okey there is still more.

"then next week on another creative excursion, go browsing (NOT TO BUY) at a new clothing boutique. you know, that place that always intriques you but you stay away from because it's too expensive.the spring fashions should be arriving about now. see what's new.see what's you."

try eat some thing new, maybe it's something you'll like but you don't know yet. try different outfit, maybe it's something new for you, but perhaps it is you, but you haven't discover it yet.

well then, let's do the experiment, and don't forget to share.!!

source: A Daily book of Simple Abundance by Sarah B.

PS: you know what?
       i got this book on my experiment day, visiting places and shops i've never been. then i found the book in a used-book shop. with a nice price ofcourse. Best Buy on the Best day. *Wink


Thursday, May 19, 2011

Soul Tendencies: once upon a heart

Soul Tendencies: once upon a heart: "i was reading this simple blog of an editor... so simple and so plain...i mean pure... this person has a nice character...pure...green......"

once upon a heart

i was reading this simple blog of an editor...
so simple and so plain...i mean pure...

this person has a nice character...pure...green...plain
this person (the writer/blogger) was hurt,abandoned and betrayed..
but shows no hatred, no anger, no sad...
but instead, show mercy and forgiveness...

i wonder, perhaps, someday, i could reach that level of feeling
get my self into purity
have myself be refreshed
well, perhaps,one day..
in the right time..
in certain cosmic level..
reach the proper soul page..
j'espere...
once upon a heart...

Saturday, February 5, 2011

inside the soul

The journeys...the inspirations....good food, cool music, fashion freedom, great people, wisdom, what's in the soul, what's in the mind, what's in the heart, dreams, come and go, memories, the art, the process, the works, money maker, etc...all in one wrapped in a clicked box.....

tendencies in a person, tendencies among society...

...inside the soul...


xoxo : :SOULTENDENCIES