Soul Tendencies: grieve-never too much

Soul Tendencies: grieve-never too much: "' we might stay in that unfoldment for any length of time. the need to grieve a change is natural and human and healthy. each of us is uniqu..."

grieve-never too much

"we might stay in that unfoldment for any length of time. the need to grieve a change is natural and human and healthy. each of us is unique in the amount of time what we need to grieve."

- the reverend mary murray shelton- guidance from the darkness,the transforming power of the divine feminine in difficult times


hey ladies,,
for major losses like the death of spouse or heartbreak,,,it is hurt and sometimes when it comes, its first effect can be confusing. no appetite to eat or perhaps eat too much,drink too much, sloppy dressed,leave the body treatment etc. we're going crazy when it happen, sometimes it seems we're fine, then depression comes. the intellect tends to shut off and leave us only with sort of automatic pilot.

it is so hard to take over again the "seat" and back in charge. well my friends,,,do what u really want but not too over-react. not too much of everything. u eat, reduce your meal,drink a little, meet your friends, spare little time for yourself, go waste your angry energy by doing sports, read the inspiring books, watch funny movie,listen to one sad song but continue with ten energic songs.

don't drink too much, loosing your conscious for a half time each day only get u worse and hurt more for the comin days untill you no longer stand to be in conscious, that feeling will bring you to next level of self-destroying. Drugs?? absolutely not!! it will kill your humanity.

don't eat too much.
i've been in a stressful moment, in a long period of sad soul. eat too much, i gain too much weight. uh uh cannot control it. also following myself loosing appetite then i get so thin. it's not abnormal, but stay longer and being an eating-disorder is not my and it won't be your choice either. it is forbidden. and how do you present yourself if you lose your nice body?

set dates for pampering days,,,still do the treatment and really enjoy them,,perhaps more treatment will do treat you better.

change your look,, be better, be brighter, be prettier or more gorgeous, start the positive thinking and positive attitude. one whole week of grieve or maximum of 2 weeks is more than enough. the feeling will may stay still, but at least it will reduce a little each time untill it shutted down and finally off the ground.

hey friends,,,remember you are not alone. even if you are now,, it is an exclusive time for you to do all what you want. but not too much okaiy.. xoxo

Song Lyric : SEVEN DAYS IN SUNNY JUNE ; by: Jamiroquai

The pebbles you've arranged
In the sand they're strange
they speak to me like to constellations as we lie here
There's a magic I can't hold
your smile of honey gold
and that you never seem to be in short supply of

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine, and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop that bomb on me

Lazy days crazy dolls
You said we've been friends too long
Seven days in sunny June
Were long enough to bloom
The flowers on the summer dress you wore in spring
The way we laughed as one
And then you dropped the bomb
That I've know you too long for us to have a thing

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine,and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop that bomb on me
Why did you have to drop the bomb

Could it be this
The story in your eyes
Tell of silent wings
You fly away on.

Seven days in sunny June
Were long enough to bloom
The flowers on the sunbeam dress you wore in spring
Yeah yeah, the way we laughed as one
Why did you drop that bomb on me

Ooh, so baby lets get it on
Drinking wine, and killing time and sittin in the summer sun
You know, I wanted you so long
Why did you have to drop the bomb on me

Could it be this
The honeysuckle blessings you seem to show me
Could it be this
For seven days in june I wasn't lonely
Could it be this
You never gave me time to say I love you
Could it be this
I know you dont believe me but it's so true

Don't walk away from me girl
I read the stories in your eyes
Don't you walk away from me
I read the stories in your eyes
And you been telling we been friends for too long girl
I think I love you
I think I love you


(but you wanna drop the bomb)